You Are All Alive Today

Parshat Va'Etchanan

by Rabbi Avi Billet

In times like these, one feels a sense of helplessness. A sense of unworthinesss.

                

Now that Hamas has resumed their rocket attacks, and Israel has been drawn in again to war, we shudder with the thought of every new story that comes out of Israel, of the short life of a fallen soldier, which has and will continue to make us wonder if we are doing our part for the sake of the Jewish people. How many of us, were we fit and trained properly, would be willing to go to the front lines, or send our sons to the front lines, knowing we or they might not return?

                

We are here, at Shabbos Nachamu, looking for comfort, and yet the words of Eichah 1, “There is no comfort” (repeated four times in the chapter), are what resonate. How can we be comforted when so many young men, true “giborim” fell at the hands of the enemy?

                

There is no comfort.

                

I have read of a Hamas plot for this coming High Holiday season that may have been averted on account of Operation Protective Shield. If true, it might be a slight comfort.

                

But who knows? I, for one, would rather have every one of these soldiers and teenagers back now, and deal with the next challenge when it comes.

                

Alas, this is the price of war. Fallen soldiers, lost sons, brothers, fathers, husbands, fiancés, and families bereft.

                

And yet, a united nation. From the left to the right, Israelis have supported this war and understand its validity and necessity. When a bereaved mother can say “Am Yisrael Chai” (the nation of Israel lives!) and that “Ahavah t’natzeach” (love will win the day), a world of sensible people looks on with admiration and in awe.

                

The Torah tells us, “You, who cling to Hashem your God, you are all living today.” (4:4) The translation doesn’t do justice to the Hebrew “Chayim kulkhem hayom.” You are all “Chayim.”

                

Understandably, the specific context of that statement was Moshe speaking to the generation about to enter the Land of Israel. Their parents had lost a connection with God on account of the Golden Calf and the sin of the spies, but the present generation Moshe was addressing had never sinned in such a manner.

                

Why does Moshe tell them they are living? Obviously, if he’s talking to them, they are alive!

                

Because the concept of living has different meanings. The first definition of “living” is obvious to us all – blood flowing, brain functioning, a person who contains the breath of life. Living also refers to what we are doing with our lives. We may be alive, but is the life in which we exist one in which we live it to the max? A life of meaning and of purpose? With goals?

                

And there is also the living that comes after death. Every Shabbos, we say the prayer of “Av Harachamim” which invokes some of the language King David used to eulogize King Shaul and Prince Yonatan who fell in battle. “They were lovely and pleasant in their lives, and in their death they have not departed.” (Samuel II 1:23)

                

They have not departed because they still live in us. If Rashi “says” (present tense) and Rambam “says” - they are both still living. If David’s friendship with Yonatan never ended, Yonatan was always alive to him. If we can welcome Eliyahu at every bris, it is because Eliyahu is still “living.”

                

The Or HaChaim takes this several steps further when he offers a number of interpretations on our verse. He notes that the tetragrammaton can have a prefix added to it, but the prefix does not attain the holiness of God’s name. In Ba’Hashem or La’Hashem the bet or lamed can be erased. However, when a suffix is added to the name “Elokim,” the suffix attains a level of holiness akin to God’s name, and cannot be erased.

                

The Or HaChaim says “You who cling to Hashem your God” is a message to those who cling to Hashem in the manner of “Your God” – who attach themselves to God in such a way that we achieve holiness and can’t be erased as being not really part of God’s name – “you are living today.”

                

When the nation of Israel, in Israel and abroad, can unite under the banner of a united People under God, when Jews the world-over can say the Shema, recite Tehillim, gather to pray, the nation and its people live. When we count every soldier who falls as a lost son, and pay no attention to whether he was from a left-wing kibbutz, a secular family, a Hesder yeshiva, or a Nahal Haredi, we are living. And the memory of the soldier, who gave his life for the highest purpose, lives on.

                

If on Tisha B’Av we still remember those martyred during the time of the Second Temple, the Ten rabbis who were murdered in the 100 years following, the Crusades, the Inquisition, the Chmielnicki massacres, the Holocaust, and all those who have fallen since the establishment of the State of Israel, then those who “were pleasant and beloved in their lives, and in their deaths have not departed” becomes true for us and future generations.

                

We mourn because we are broken and sad by the loss of these beloved soldiers. And we shout Am Yisrael Chai because we cling to God in a manner that makes us all holy as well. When one of us falls, a piece of God’s holiness is lost in this world. This is why we all feel it, and why it is so hard to find comfort.

                

May we be able to find comfort soon, when the IDF completes its mission, and the entity of Hamas is destroyed forever. When the Land of Israel is free of attacks our people will merit to fulfill all meanings of “Chayim kulkhem hayom” – that those who cling to God find the fullest meaning in life itself. 

A Great, Wise, and Understanding People? Right...

Parshat Va'Etchanan

by Rabbi Avi Billet

We are now past Tisha B'Av, and our first Shabbos foray into the synagogue puts us in a position to hear this message from Moshe: "Behold, I have taught you statutes and ordinances, as the Lord, my God, commanded me, to do so in the midst of the land to which you are coming to possess.  And you shall keep [them] and do [them], for this is your wisdom and your understanding in the eyes of the nations, who will hear all these statutes and will say, 'This great nation is only a wise and understanding people.'" (Devarim 4:5-6)

            

I try not to live with blinders on. Which is why reading this triggers an exasperating throw of my hands skyward, along with a look heavenward, and a cry (sometimes aloud, but more often silent because no one is listening) of "Us? When will THIS happen?"

            

Did this happen a long time ago – perhaps during the time of David or Solomon? Did this happen during the time of the first or second Temples? Did this happen during the Talmudic Period? Does it refer to the historical anomaly of the kingdom of the Khazars?

            

It's great that the Kuzari was written by Rabbi Yehuda HaLevi. Would it ever have been written by someone from the "nations" described in the Torah?

            

The only "wisdom of this nation" I hear bandied around is the accusation of the Jews being the Illuminati, or that the Protocols are true. Of course both of these are nonsense. But when the headlines "amongst the nations" (when true) are about Jews who commit abominable deeds – especially Jews who are supposed to know better on account of their Jewish education and upbringing – the Torah (and I shudder to say this) seems to be out to lunch on reality.

            

Of course, the Torah is right. If the Jewish people would only "keep them and do them" – the commandments, that is – we would indeed be a wise and understanding people. A model to all. After all, thievery, physical abuse, cover-ups, dishonesty, slander, etc are all intolerable offenses which have no place in a world governed by Torah ideals.

            

But even so, our Public Relations would still need a lot of work. There are many cynical and skeptical people, Jewish and not Jewish, who believe the Torah mandates the stoning of adulterers (Vayikra 20) and the killing of minors (Devarim 21:20-21, 22:21-24), and the most heinous of punishments not for the perpetrators, but for the victims of sexual abuse (Devarim 22:29).

            

Anyone who makes these claims does not understand the magnitude of Torah knowledge as they look at the verse in its most simplistic translation, and have no concept of the Oral Torah, and thousands of years of rabbinic discussions addressing what these cases mean, and whether the punishments described in the Torah were ever carried out en masse or were more fixated on demonstrating the gravity of the sin, while life itself was valued.

            

The Talmud (Makkot 7) claims that courts did not exercise capital punishment. At worst, it was a very rare occurrence. And the conditions leading to such were almost impossible to attain: valid witnesses, proper warning, zero contradictions in testimony.

            

We live in a time when Sharia law, which takes some of the Biblical laws literally (or at least as prescribed in the Quran), and practices the worst kinds of corporal punishment, is on the rise in the world, in practice and acceptance, even in some Western countries.

Halakha, on the other hand, which has so many varying opinions and is a system which can help people live meaningful and fulfilling lives following various schools of interpretation, isn't growing beyond very small circles of Jews.

            

And it has become a major turnoff to many Jews who do not observe. This is wisdom? This is understanding? What are we doing wrong?

            

We are not as Jewishly educated as we ought to be. Even our rabbis and educators, and certainly a large majority of our flock do not have a mastery of Tanakh, Talmud and Halakhic literature.

            

We spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on the education of every child in his/her lifetime, yet we (and our children) can't read Hebrew, can't translate Hebrew, and have no patience to tackle a new text. We review the same laws every year, and we still don't know basic synagogue practice and basic holiday practice. Or what it means to live a life of "hatznea leches" – living a modest existence in which we do not call unnecessary attention to ourselves.

            

We preach about lashon hara, but we don't know the difference between a to'eles (discussion with a purpose) and what is pure besmirching and slander. Even as we wring our hands with dismay at the chillul Hashem, we enjoy reading all the dirt in the press about Jewish people who "look frum" who conduct themselves in ways that are anything but…

            

We talk about people doing teshuvah, but we are unaccepting of people we believe can't do teshuvah.

            

The Jewish criminals don't represent us. But we are not doing a good enough job of representing ourselves through living and modeling a Torah life that will cause others to say, "This is a great nation, wise and understanding."

            

Let the recent mourning period of Av serve as a reminder that we have a long way to go. May we find the strength to live up to our mandate from the Torah, to truly be a model nation.

The Merits of Performance

Parshat Va'etchanan

by Rabbi Avi Billet

Tisha B'Av is a date on the calendar most noted by observant Jews. It is not so much that it is otherwise ignored, but differently affiliated Jews generally confine their annual Jewish fast days to Yom Kippur. The concept of sadness or a connection to the darker side of our People's history is by no means exclusive to any group. History's enemies of the Jewish people (some of whom continue to make history now) never differentiated between how people practiced their Judaism, as much as they obsessed over the fact that Jews identified as Jews.

The question becomes, for how much longer will those who know not of Tisha B'Av identify as Jews?

The last verse in Devarim chapter 6 states: "It will be a merit for us if we are careful to perform this entire commandment before the Lord our God, as He commanded us."

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch spells out his understanding of this verse in simple language. "We can discharge the tasks of our life's mission only if we keep the whole Torah as "mitzvah"; only if we observe all the laws, without differentiation, as God's commandment, our Divinely-ordained assignment to our life's station; only if we do every mitzvah carefully, without diminishing from it or changing it, all in accordance with the content and manner prescribed by God We do not have the right to abrogate or reform any of it."

In Hirsch's view, there is no question that an observance of Judaism that follows the letter of the Law as described in Devarim and elsewhere in the Torah, is meritorious for the Jewish people. Obedience to Divine dictates, as it were, is a lifestyle that is timeless, and is not meant to ever be viewed as being outdated.

When Rabbi JH Hertz's assumed the post of Chief Rabbi of England in 1913, his inaugural sermon invoked the message of the Men of the Great Assembly as recorded in the first mishnah in Avot, focusing on their three-tiered message, which concludes with "make a fence for the Torah."

His words are as relevant today as they were then.

"Ours will be no Platonic admiration of the Torah; ours no "fulfilling" of the Torah by abolishing it. For well we know that, when the framework of the ancient Law falls away, when the immemorial rites, customs, and ceremonies go, we are left without God in our lives. We may – for a time – remain an ethical, but we are no longer a religious people. And then our days are numbered; for in our Religion alone lies the secret of our deathlessness.  When Malachi's contemporaries asked for proof of the love of God, he bade them contrast the history of Israel with that of the neighboring Bedouin tribes. And verily, with all their outward similarity and kinship of blood, how different were the ultimate fates of Israel and of Moab, for example. 'The history of Moab, loses itself obscurely and fruitlessly in the sand; that of Israel issues in eternity.' Why? Israel had the Torah, statutes, judgments, 'fences'; ceremonies which in a world of maddening brutality, sweetened the life of the Jew; customs which linked generation to generation in filial piety; observances which in the face of countless cataclysms and dispersions unified, as nothing else could, the scattered atoms of the House of Israel – dykes built by inspired engineers to save us from all the waters of heathenism and animalism."

Tisha B'Av is therefore a microcosm of a much larger concern facing our generation. Through our history, the Jewish people were either ridiculed for not conforming to the standards of the majority population, or were singled out as scapegoats and victims for the problems and aggression of their anti-Semitic tormentors, who detested the Jewish moral righteousness and high ethical standards to which the Torah demanded the Jew to abide by.

How long will Judaism without Torah remain Judaism? Which generation of Israeli politicians will drop their 'standards' because it doesn't get them anywhere with the West and with the domestic problems that are aggravated by local enemies?

How many more generations of un-Jewishly-educated Jews will it take for Judaism to drop from their ranks and files because it will be completely out of touch, and too ancient?

The time is right for all Jews to pursue an authentic Jewish education, and to bring a dose of traditional Judaism back into the home and one's lifestyle choices.

Ethics are beautiful, but they only work when the source of the ethics are understood as not only instructive to our lives, but as a small ingredient of a larger recipe that creates a fulfilling life. The other ingredients are not self-motivated or self-understood. They come from thousands of years of a tried and true tradition that works when it is adhered to, and has proven disastrous time and time again when ignored.

As the verse says, "It will be a merit for us if we are careful to perform this entire commandment." I hope we agree that we can use all the merits we can get.

Shema Bears Repeating

This can be read in the Jewish Star

Parshat Va'etchanan

There is a story told of a Jew who bought a car from a very yeshivish mechanic. As he was about to drive away, the mechanic told him, “I tinkered with the car a little to make it more heimish. Instead of using a key, all you have to do is say ‘Baruch Hashem’ to make it start, and ‘Shema Yisrael’ when you want to turn it off.”

One summer day, he took a wrong turn off a country road and found himself driving straight for a cliff! He tried to hit the brakes, turn off the ignition, but nothing worked. In his fright, he forgot the formula the mechanic told him. On the brink of death and with no other choice, he screamed “Shema Yisrael Hashem Elokeinu Hashem Echad!” And of course, the car stopped at the very edge of the cliff.

Unable to believe he actually survived, he started pinching himself all over, as he exclaimed, “Baruch Hashem!”

Putting the tinkering mechanic aside, why do we put so much stock into the verse and paragraph of Shema? Most Jews, regardless of education, are familiar with this verse. Rabbi Yaakov Skili (Torat Hamincha) includes Shema in his list of early “nourishment of the soul” given to a child who is at the developing stages of cognitive ability.

The idea of Shma being the last thing we say in our lives was emphasized in the Talmud by Rabbi Akiva 2,000 years ago (Brachot 61b). In our own time, this was most clearly emphasized by the story of Ro’i Klein, an IDF officer who fell on a grenade during the second Lebanon War to save the men around him.

The first sentence of Shema is arguably the highlight of Chapter 6 in Devarim, whose theme is so emblematic of what Judaism is meant to be and what role Judaism should have in a person’s life.

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch asks: If the best form of testimony is to see something, why does the Torah use the term “Hear Israel?” Shouldn’t it say “Look Israel and see that Hashem is our G-d, that Hashem is one?”

Our forefathers certainly saw G-d and experienced a unique knowledge and understanding of G-d through the miracles they witnessed at the end of Egyptian bondage and in the journey to Sinai. At the foot of the mountain, as they witnessed the ultimate vision of G-d permissible to humans, our forefathers heard G-d speak directly to them.

Rabbi Hirsch says “Only at one time [in history] did G-d enter the earthly present and reveal Himself there to His people: when laying the foundation for the creation of His people. Henceforth one generation shall tell another about G-d’s revelation…”

In the absence of further revelations, knowledge of G-d is preserved through hearing, as each generation hears of the revelation and G-d’s role in our lives from those who precede us.

The main message of the Shema rests in the word “v’shinantam,” which means “you will review.” Again and again and again. An “enlightened” person might call this brainwashing. But people of faith call it transmitting a heritage and a legacy.

The strength of Shema lies in that we are saying it two or three times every day. Love G-d completely, with everything you have. Remind yourself, over and over, that you must love G-d. That you have to say this again and again, and include your children in the conversation. Tell them why you love G-d. If you don’t know why you love G-d, seek and find why you love G-d (4:29).

The Shema foments this belief. We prolong the last word, as we accept the yolk of heaven upon us, and the opportunity to serve G-d through fulfilling His commandments.

Some will view it as a burden, some will view it as a difficult task, some will passively or actively reject. As the song says, however, “Ain’t no mountain high enough to keep me from getting to you.” When you love something or someone and you want to do everything for that entity, there are no questions and there is no stopping you from achieving your objective.

This is the Shema, this is telling it to your children, this is transmitting a belief system through constant repetition. This is the first step in making the lifestyle we’ve chosen a lifestyle our children will want to maintain and strengthen.