A response to the week of the Boston bombing, the tragedy in West, TX, and a local tragedy in Boca Raton, FL, [this last article is referenced in the text below], concluding with a personal tribute on the occasion of a yarzeit
Acharei Mot
Kedoshim Emor (A sermon)
There
is an expression in Hebrew that combines the names of our parshas this week and
next - Acharei Mot Kedoshim Emor – after the deaths of the righteous speak.
Some view it as an ironic statement introducing what you say before eulogizing
one who wasn't righteous.
But
some take it as a statement which reflects a reality – after the death of the
righteous it is a time to speak, to reflect, and to take note. And it is that
focus which I would like to apply to my words this morning.
The story is told of Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach – when
asked by a yeshiva bochur if it was bittul torah to travel three hours up to
Tiveriah, Tzfat, Meron, etc. to daven by the mekomot ha-kedoshim there, Rav
Shlomo Zalman Auerbach replied that he should daven by the kedoshim here in
Jerusalem, buried at Har Herzl.
Between the reflections
of Yom HaZikaron in Israel , and the loss of innocents in Boston and in West, Texas , as well as the tragedy which befell the South
Florida Jewish community when a 12 year old girl was killed in a traffic
accident in Boca on Monday, it is a real opportunity to fulfill "Acharei Mot
Kedoshim Emor."
When innocent people die
in accidents or in senseless acts of terror – and it became clear yesterday
even to those who thought it might have been "domestic" that the
latest Boston Massacre was a result of terrorism – we, the good citizens of the
world, are left to wonder, what is going on on this earth?
We are left to question
the ways of God, knowing we will not find answers.
We are once again faced
with the impossible-to-answer-question of why bad things happen to good people.
The Sefirat HaOmer
period has become a yearly reminder of tragedy, as many of our brothers and
sisters observe customs of mourning to commemorate the "era that never
was" on account of the deaths of Rabbi Akiva's students. Acharei Mot Kedoshim Emor.
People of faith do not
seek to find answers – because there is but one answer. There is a Master of
the Universe. He knows what He is doing. He understands
the big picture. He has the benefit of the wide lens. And
the luxury of time.
In time, some of us may
see or understand. Some of us might only understand when our bodies have left
us and we are soaring souls. Some of us may wander and wonder for the rest of
our days and never achieve the clarity we so yearn for right now.
Perhaps the clarity is
too painful. Perhaps seeing and knowing are things we are not quite ready to
do.
Parshas Acharei Mos
begins with instructions given to Aharon for how to conduct himself in his most
special role as Kohen Gadol, on the Holiest Day of the year, Yom Kippur. The
instructions came after the deaths of Nadav and Avihu – it's a painful pill for
Aharon to swallow. But he must also learn from their mistakes - what not to do.
In fact it's the first thing he's told "וְאַל יָבֹא בְכָל עֵת אֶל הַקֹּדֶשׁ מִבֵּית לַפָּרֹכֶת
אֶל פְּנֵי הַכַּפֹּרֶת אֲשֶׁר עַל הָאָרֹן וְלֹא יָמוּת כִּי בֶּעָנָן אֵרָאֶה
עַל הַכַּפֹּרֶת:"
Don't come to the Holy of Holies at any time – as your sons tried to do! Don't
die doing the service! Come one day a year, in the manner which will be
described.
Is this pouring salt in
Aharon's wounds? It's hard to say, as the Torah paints Nadav and Avihu here in
a positive light: בְּקָרְבָתָם
לִפְנֵי יְקֹוָק וַיָּמֻתוּ: - that as they were getting very close to God they died - Perhaps
even suggesting that while the death of loved ones is painful for those who are
left behind to mourn, maybe sometimes death is a gift to the person who dies.
Rabbi Goldberg from the
Boca Raton Synagogue wrote an incredible tribute to the 12-year old girl and her parents,which was featured on Aish.com. He quoted her father, Rabbi Stern, who, in his
eulogy for his daughter expressed gratitude to
those who have helped his family at this difficult time. More remarkably, he
offered words of gratitude to the Almighty Himself for sharing Shoshi with
them, even if it was only for 12 short years."
This is Acharei Mos
Kedoshim Emor.
The Sterns even told the
police to reach out to the driver, who after the traffic investigation was
deemed to have done nothing wrong and was not charged, and to tell him “Please, I beg of you, get in touch with him and tell
him that we are people of faith, we believe in God and we know that this was
not his fault. Please,” she said, “tell him not to allow this to ruin the rest
of his life.”
I have heard similar
sentiments expressed by parents of Israeli soldiers who are killed by friendly
fire. They say, we forgive you, we love you, we know what you are going
through. And we accept it as the will of God.
Acharei Mos Kedoshim
Emor.
In Parshas Kedoshim, we
have an interesting conglomerate of laws and instructions. In some ways there
are connections and themes, but for the most part it is an interesting mixed
bag of laws. However, there are a few laws which refer to the treatment of a
Ger = a stranger who lives among you. I do not believe it refers to a convert,
because to me, what we call a convert is a "Jew." A ger, therefore is
a ger Toshav – a person who has accepted to be a Noahide, who lives in your
land, accepts your autonomy, follows your civil laws, but is not a Jew.
Our commandments
regarding the Ger are to leave some produce in the field for him, as well as
for the poor, not to oppress him, and that he should be treated like a regular
Ezrach – a citizen – and ואהבת
לו כמוך.
But there is a caveat.
He must behave as an Ezrach. Because we read immediately at the beginning of
the next Perek, that a Ger who gives his child to Molech, to idolatry, to an
ideal so antithetical to our cause and peoplehood, he is to be killed by the
people of the land.
And while I believe our
justice system in the United States is pretty good – it isn't perfect, what is? – I don't
believe we are strong enough with people who choose to live here but live an
anti-American life. The individuals apparently responsible for the Boston
Massacre, were apparently legal residents of the United States . But this does not matter - they are not
"gerim" who are Ezrachim who are deserving of the liberties afforded
to basic criminals.
Acharei Mot Kedoshim
Emor – we must speak truth that evil people who are looking to harm innocent
people – Kedoshim sometimes means Holy, but it also means separate, and perhaps
even elite – which we can say about people who can run a marathon in 4 hours –
they are kadosh in distinguishing themselves in their training, their devotion,
their drive, their stamina, and their dedication to get to that 26th
point second mile – the evil and destructive people are not even deserving of a
civil trial. They get what they deserve – ובערת הרע מקרבך.
It is insulting that anyone might waiver and
say, even before yesterday's revelations, that this "might not be
terrorism." It must be shouted that "This is terrorism and the person
or people responsible are not only not welcome in this land, but if you
perpetrate crimes of this manner, this is worse than espionage and is
punishable – כאשר עשו כן
יעשו להם."
If you don't stand for
peace in your own borders, the Torah tells us, the civil unrest – INTERNALLY! –
will destroy you and everything you stand for.
As for those in West, Texas – It's a terrible tragedy. We pray for them to be
able to pick up from the devastation, we mourn for the loss of innocent life,
and we hope better times will come for them in the proper time.
Acharei Mot Kedoshim
Emor. Say the right words. At the minimum be sympathetic and empathetic. And if
at all possible, do whatever you can to help.
The
Gemara in Brachos 5a warns us that when a person sees tragedies hitting him,
Yefashfesh B'maasav. He must examine his deeds. This may apply on a personal level, a family level, a community
level, or even a city, state, national or even international level.
In his eulogy on
Aish.com Rabbi Goldberg similarly noted the practice of the sages: "If one of the members of the community has tragically
died, the entire community should be anxious, worried and concerned."
While this is not to suggest that we as a community, as a
shul or as a People are responsible for any of these events – we don't know the
ways of God – nonetheless we are left to
look at our deeds, care more for one another – certainly internally, but also
to be good neighbors and good citizens. To carry ourselves with dignity and to
conduct ourselves with courtesy and respect for others.
Sometimes it is hard.
Sometimes we are treated badly. Sometimes the sharp retort feels like the most
pleasurable thing to say in a particular moment.
But we must resist and
be the best we can be.
Acharei Mot Kedoshim
Emor. Innocent people die – we must reflect on the frailty of life and remember
how quickly it can be taken away. We must make the most of our relationships,
appreciate our spouses, children, parents. We must maximize how we utilize our
time – for pleasure, of course, but more importantly for spiritual pursuits and
endeavors. We are here in shul on a lovely weekend, for example, because that
is important to us. Instead of looking at a clock, perhaps we can benefit from
telling ourselves we don't spend enough time here, that maybe we need
to be in shul as much as we can, to provide the nourishment that fills
the needs of our souls.
I want to conclude with
a brief tribute to a man who I witnessed, even in my short time knowing him,
living this way.
The founding gabbai of
Anshei Chesed was Elie Frances , of blessed memory. A more dedicated shul man you
couldn't find. Loving his gabbaius, caring about the seder hatefillah, dotting
the Is and crossing the Ts of making the experience at the bimah and in the
kahal a smooth experience for all.
He was a hidden child
during WWII, and he made up for his lost years of Jewish education in ways we
could not imagine. He was a wonderful, sincere, baal tefillah – particularly on
the Yomim Noraim, when he graced us with his sincerity and heartfelt emotion on
the High Holidays.
I remember watching him
once thinking "he could do this for another 30 years – he loves it so much." But
it was not to be. His final months passed too quickly. He leaves a void in this
shul that those who knew him well feel on a regular basis.
Leah is one of the
Kiddush sponsors today on the occasion of Elie's yarzeit. We join you in
wishing his neshama to have the aliyahs that our brachos will give. We also
thank you for continuing to bring the Frances grace and charm to our shul. It's a little different
on the women's side of the mechitzah, but what you bring to our shul is a lot
more than a smooth davening experience. And we are grateful that you have
found the strength to come and to participate in the way you do.
Acharei Mot Kedoshim
Emor gives the responsibility to the living to speak well of those who are
gone, to have important conversation of how we can be מקדש שם שמים, and hopefully bring about an era in which tragedies – whether
seemingly man-made or man-provoked, or coming from God himself, need not impact
those about whom we care the most.
Acharei Mot Kedoshim
Emor – it is our hope that you can
continue to Emor – to speak of Elie and to remember him in this fashion – whether as a tribute to enhance the davening experience or a tribute to enhance
the learning experiences that others will undertake in his name.
תנצבה.
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