Thursday, September 17, 2020

The Many Ways of Returning

Shabbos Shuva Yisrael 

by Rabbi Avi Billet 

Haftorahs are often relegated to the realm of “when will this be over as I don’t understand it,” but sometimes the Haftorah achieves an element of prominence through the Shabbos being named for it, and its message being most clear and poignant. The Haftorahs that feature most prominently throughout the year are the “3 prophesies of difficulty” which lead up to Tisha B’Av, the “7 prophesies of comfort” which follow Tisha B’Av, the first of which is “Shabbos Nachamu,” and then our Haftorah for “Shabbos Shuva.” Some of the narrative Haftorahs that pop up during the year may feature prominently as well because everyone likes a good story, but even the narratives don’t take on a life of their own, as they are often overshadowed by the events in their corresponding Parsha. 

It is also interesting to note how some Haftorahs repeat, such as the Haftorah for Shabbos Chanukah is the same as the Haftorah of B’haalos’kha, the Haftorah for Noach is a combination of the Haftorahs for Re’eh and Ki Tetze, and our Haftorah from this week is part of the Haftorah for Vayetze (Hoshea 14). 

Considering that our Haftorah, specifically chosen for its call to “Return to God” (Shuva Yisrael!), seems to fit nicely in the context of the Shabbos between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur as it carries a message of Teshuvah, one wonders what that has to do with the story of Yaakov fleeing from Eisav, running away to Charan, establishing his family, and building his wealth before finally returning home – the topic of Parshat Vayetze, the other time our Haftorah is read during the year. 

One possibility, suggested by Rabbi Yehuda Shaviv in his book “בין הפטרה לפרשה” (Connections between the Haftorah and the Parsha) is that the word “Shuva” (return) can be referencing a physical return to the homeland. In Parshat Vayetze, Yaakov is eventually told by God, after many years in Lavan’s house, that it is time to return to the land of his fathers. 

This suggestion actually makes a lot of sense when we look back at the same message being delivered in the calendar context of this week’s reading of the prophet Hoshea’s words when we consider the Haftorahs we read in this time period to be connected. The most recent two Haftorahs that we read were on the second day of Rosh Hashana and on Tzom Gedaliah. On the second day of Rosh Hashana, the cry of Rachel is recalled by the prophet Yirmiyahu, as she is told her efforts on behalf of her children will not go unnoticed, as “ושבו בנים לגבולם” – they will return home from exile! The next verses there reference how Ephraim undergoes Teshuvah (repentance) and regret over misdeeds – certainly a fitting set of messages for Rosh Hashana. 

On Tzom Gedaliah we read the Haftorah of all fast days, “Dirshu” (Yeshayahu 56) which is primarily an exortation to the people to return to God in a spiritual way, following the model of righteous gentiles who either convert to Judaism or seek out God out of a deep spiritual longing. 

On the continuum of our “Haftorah record keeping” we can see how there are a number of messages of “Return” featured here – one of which is what we call Teshuvah, a return to Godliness, while another is a need to yearn to return home. 

In Yaakov’s case, we can certainly argue that there was another concern, that his exile to Lavan would be the source for the destruction of his family, and their collective religious future. We know this from how the Haggadah depicts Yaakov’s venture into Lavan’s territory. But we can also see the writing on the wall when we consider the story of Rabbi Elazar ben Arakh, the great student of Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai, about whom Koheles Rabba informs us that when the center of Torah moved to Yavneh, Rabbi Elazar ben Arakh moved away from that community to be near his wife’s family in Emaus, where his connection to Torah was simply lost – he even forgot all that he had learned. The Talmud also tells us in several places that Rabbi Elazar ben Arakh was also known as Rabbi Nehorai, who famously said (Avot 4:14), “Exile [only] to a place of Torah, and don’t say it [the Torah] will follow you” presumably because it doesn’t work that way. For Torah to survive, a concerted effort needs to be undertaken to maintain its study and practice. 

Another example of this is in the prayer of the Kohen Gadol on Yom Kippur, which he said after finishing his Avodah and left the Holy of Holies for the final time. According to the version of his prayer that appears in the Talmud Yerushalmi in Yoma, he would say, “If we are slated to go to exile, our exile should be in a place of Torah.” Rabbi Yissachar Tamar explained how important this prayer was, because whenever Jews were exiled to a place without Torah, they were caught up in assimilation, they forgot their Torah, their faith become inconsequential, to the point that it was lost from their descendants completely. 

Rabbi Mosheh Lichtenstein noted that the Haftorah of Shuva constitutes a form of response to the destruction of the Beit Hamikdash, which is meant to precipitate a feeling of mourning (which needs comfort) and to inspire Teshuva (the repentance kind) that brings us closer to God after having been driven apart from Him. “Reading the haftara of Shuva stems from a double obligation of repentance: a) the obligation of repentance generated by the Ten Days of Penitence; and b) an obligation of repentance following the destruction of the Temple.” 

On account of a debate raised by Tosafot in Megillah (31b) as to whether the Haftorah for this week should be “Shuva Yisrael” (from Hoshea 14) or “Dirshu” (the Haftorah for fast days), Rav Mosheh concluded his thought about why Shuva is indeed the Haftorah we read today, noting there are “2 models for prophecies of repentance that translate into 2 kinds of haftarot. There are prophecies that present us with repentance and pardon in all their glory and describe a high spiritual state, and there are prophecies that deal with repentance at a very base level.” 

He argues that “Dirshu” challenges people on a high level to aim higher. This may reflect the reality that the people who most often hear that Haftorah, on fast days, are only Jews who are fasting, who are typically more involved in active Jewish observance, who are thus inspired to aim higher in their repentance efforts. On the other hand, the Haftorah of Shuva speaks to a lower common denominator, to the Jewish people in its totality, regardless of levels of knowledge, observance, or commitment. Return to God simply because He is your God. 

“It seems that the haftara of Dirshu is more appropriate, as Rabbenu Tam rules for certain years. ls it not better to turn to the people with a call to superior repentance rather than to be satisfied with inferior repentance? 

“However, the consideration that guides our custom is to select Shuva precisely because of its low common denominator. The prophecy of Dirshu is surely more exalted and uplifting than Shuva. However, Shuva's deficiency also makes it more desirable. Dirshu presents man with tall demands. Fortunate is he who merits to realize them, but not everyone can do so. The threshold is so high and the demands so great that many people cannot meet them. Its realization depends on an elevated spiritual state, and while it is certainly preferable, it is difficult to achieve. Shuva, on the other hand, does not set lofty demands. All that Israel has to do is come home to God. There is no need for a profound spiritual change, and a feeling of privation suffices to draw man close to God. Such repentance is in everyone's reach.” 

Whether a longing to return home to the land of Israel, a longing to return to God, a desire to raise the bar on our own Torah study and observance, or an inspiration to repent and change one’s ways, our Haftorah’s call of Shuva should be the final wake up call we need to put ourselves on the right path that makes us ready for Yom Kippur, so we can be blessed with the good and better year we all hope to see for ourselves, our families, our community, Am Yisrael, and the good people of the world.

Thursday, September 10, 2020

In Your Mouth and Heart - The Opportunity to Connect with the Almighty

Parshat Nitzavim Vayelekh

by Rabbi Avi Billet

One of the more potent reminders of where the life of a Jew should be focused comes towards the end of the Nitzavim component of our double-parsha, when Moshe tells the people “This mitzvah that I command you is not beyond your understanding, it is not in the heavens… nor on the other side of the sea (for which we’d need to send someone there to get it and explain it to us)… the word is very close to you, for you to fulfill with your mouth and heart.” (30:11-14) 
Our job is to fulfill the mitzvot of the Torah. “You are Israel, and you were created for this, and the soul of Israel is a partner to the soul of the Torah,” writes Rabbi Naftali Zvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv). 

Netziv explains that “In your mouth” means all you need to do is study, and “in your heart” means that it must be your heart’s desire to fulfill that which you learn. However, he notes that the Torah’s cantillation marks – the way the Torah is essentially punctuated – seem to present a different way of understanding. Were there to be a pause (Tipcha) on the word “b’fikha” (בפיך- “your mouth”) that would indicate that there are two ways to embrace the Torah, first with your mouth, then with your heart. But the punctuation indicates that the mouth and heart are to be used together! And so he concludes that there is a second message to be gleaned from this more precise reading, which is that what you do with your mouth (study) is meant to be done with such alacrity and zeal that what is learned enters the heart! 

How much of what we do as Jews, activities that are specifically Jewish in their definition, are done based on what we have actually learned or studied? Or are we just copying what we have been trained to do, whether by our parents, our schools and teachers, or by our living and being part of the Jewish community? How often do we learn a halakha and apply it to our regular routine? Do we expand on our Jewish practices? Do we intensify anything we do? Do we daven with greater understanding, or with aiming to develop or deepen our relationship with the Almighty? When we say birkat Hamazon, or any blessings, do we simply recite them by rote or are we communicating our thanks and appreciation for the things we appreciate in life? When we make charitable contributions, whether to needy individuals or to organizations we support, do we do so begrudgingly, or do we see ourselves as messengers of God Who has instructed us to help the indigent, the needy, or those doing amazing things, whether saving lives in one form or another, or supporting the study of Torah and the perpetuation of what defines our uniqueness more than anything else (hint: the Torah)? What is our view of Rabbinic rulings and decrees? Do we embrace them, and the fences they often set up for us to prevent violating Torah laws? Or do we find them to be burdensome and unworthy of our attention? 

King Solomon wrote “The sayings of the wise are like goads, and like flat headed nails well driven…” (Kohelet 12:11). Rashi describes the sayings of the wise as rabbinical decrees. Seforno explains that a flat headed nail can be dislodged to see and understand where, how and why it was driven in, and that the same applies to Rabbinic rulings, if one wants to understand the reasoning behind them. Our own intuition and logic may not always be sufficient to understand what the Rabbis had in mind. But where there is a decree there is a thought process, and that thought process should be studied, so we may better appreciate that which is our mesorah, our tradition, our heritage. 

A second lesson the Netziv draws from this statement is in focusing on what is called “Teshuvah Me’ahava” – returning to God out of love. He asks, “How can a person love God? Love, by nature, comes from the equal feelings transposed from both parties, or through an intellectual bond between people.” His answer is striking, but very important to consider. We refer to God as a father – as Avinu Malkeinu – so we must consider our relationship with God to be like that of a father to a child. There is something natural about the parent/child loving relationship that we all understand, but we can’t necessarily explain rationally. 

The verse (30:12) presents a thought we might consider, that the mitzvah is “in the heavens.” While the Torah then says we should realize that the Torah is in fact close to us, etziv says the suggestion of “the heavens” may cause us to contemplate the cosmos through which one can have a chance to achieve a love for the Almighty, Who gave us life and all the goodness we might glean out of our time on earth. 

In fact, Maimonides writes that love for God is not automatically ingrained in a person. It comes from a philosophical thought process, a theological exploration, but mostly a study of wisdom. 

Netziv continues his analysis of this verse saying that while finding love for the Almighty can be a difficult venture, the promise Moshe gives to the people is “it is close to you, for it is in your heart.” It is in your heart through the method called “Rinah” – song, joy, praise of the Holy One, as well as the joy of Torah. We know from the paragraph of Shema, which instructs us to love Hashem, that the way to love Hashem “with all your heart, all your soul, and all your might” is through “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. And you shall study/review them with your children and speak of them…” (Devarim 6:6-7) 

The more we study, the more we learn, the more we read, the more we apply what we have learned to our day to day existence, the more we feel love for Hashem, which is of course a cardinal mitzvah! While there may be truth (in some contexts) to the sentiment that “familiarity breeds contempt,” the argument being presented by Netziv is that the more familiar we are with Hashem, the more we will come to love Him. And familiarity comes from a place of seeking to know and understand God better. The way to do that is not to have a simplistic relationship of “When good things happen to me, God is watching me; when bad things happen to me, God is upset with me.” 

The believer, and the person looking to elevate one’s relationship with God says “God is always watching. Everything that happens is in God’s hands. I must do my part, my hishtadlus, and the rest is up to Him.” But the only way to truly live that way is not just through saying the right things, but through living a life of growth, of contemplation, of investigation, of introspection, seeking knowledge, seeking answers, seeking truth, seeking a relationship with God. 

Netziv concludes that a person needs to have a craving and a desire to have such a relationship with the Master of the World. Anyone can sing songs all day, or even study Torah all day, and these activities can be meaningless in the scheme of building that connection, because the song or the Torah might be the means unto themselves. “I like music. I like the intellectual process.” But if the goal is to love God, then everything – song, study, cosmos, and everything else – is perceived through the lens aimed at learning to know God in order to love God. 

With all we’ve been through in the last 6 months, it is time for us to move past pitying ourselves and our circumstance and taking the steps we must to engage our mouths and our hearts to bring God and His Torah even more into the fabric and essence of our very being. 

With so much Torah available at our fingertips on our bookcases, over the Internet, and even through apps and websites we can access on our phones, as well as the many channels available to us through organizations, programs, and study partners, it is simply a question of how/when can I allocate time to this growth in my connection with God? 

If we truly want it, then neither a high mountain or a wide sea can get in our way. After all, it’s in our mouth and heart. We just need to tap into its wealth and extract what will get us to embrace God and take on the challenge of growth for this coming year and the many to follow, with God’s help.

Thursday, September 3, 2020

This Day

Parshat Ki Tavo

by Rabbi Avi Billet

Chapter 27 of Devarim begins with Moshe’s instruction for the ritual that is to take place on Mt Gerizim and Mt Eival under Yehoshua’s leadership. It is an interesting study, comparing what is instructed and what actually takes place, so if one is so inclined, open up the book of Yehoshua to chapter 8:30-35 and compare it to Devarim 27:1-8. There are other important details of that time period which can be found at the crossing of the Jordan in chapter 4.

Immediately following these instructions, Moshe makes the following proclamation:

דברים פרק כז
הַסְכֵּ֤ת׀ וּשְׁמַע֙ יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל הַיּ֤וֹם הַזֶּה֙ נִהְיֵ֣יתָֽ לְעָ֔ם לַיקֹוָ֖ק אֱלֹהֶֽיךָ:
וְשָׁ֣מַעְתָּ֔ בְּק֖וֹל יְקֹוָ֣ק אֱלֹהֶ֑יךָ וְעָשִׂ֤יתָ אֶת־מִצְוֹתָו֙ וְאֶת־חֻקָּ֔יו אֲשֶׁ֛ר אָנֹכִ֥י מְצַוְּךָ֖ הַיּֽוֹם:

… Pay attention and listen, Israel. On this day you have become a nation to God your Lord. You must therefore obey God your Lord and keep His commandments and decrees, as I am prescribing them to you today.

As he notes in others places, Rashi notes that “this day” refers to every day, essentially arguing that we should always feel a sense of renewal in our commitment to and relationship with the Almighty, most specifically in the covenant we have with Him.

For us, we can certainly think of other meanings of “this day” as suggesting that there are specific days in our calendar year which might actually be viewed as “This Day” (with a capital T and capital D). The verse we are familiar with (see the next line) argues that Shabbos is a special “This Day” which is specifically focused on being a covenantal day with God. וְשָׁמְר֥וּ בְנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל אֶת־הַשַּׁבָּ֑ת לַעֲשׂ֧וֹת אֶת־הַשַּׁבָּ֛ת לְדֹרֹתָ֖ם בְּרִ֥ית עוֹלָֽם: (Shmot 31:16) The idea of renewing the covenant of Shabbos with God on a weekly basis is clearly a goal we ought to be undertaking each week.
But perhaps “This Day” can be taken a step further when we consider the story of Elisha and the Shunamite woman.

The Zohar indicates that the day when Elisha came to visit her (Melachim II 4:11) “And it was on That Day and Elisha came there...” – that day was Rosh Hashana. Furthermore, when Elisha asked her, “Shall I speak to the king on your behalf, or to the commanding officer?” (4:13) he was asking her if he should put in a good word for her with The King – namely with the Master of the World.

Her response was “I live among my nation.”

There is so much to be learned from this response, about what it means to be part of a community, of what it means to see merit in a kehillah, and of what it means to not be looking for special favors.

Elisha may have had inroads with the highest echelons of both political and spiritual leadership. But in the end of the day, the Shunamite woman was content with her lot, wanted to do her part to help the Man of God, and truly wanted nothing in return. Her connection with the Almighty was one of faith. When she went to seek out Elisha after her son (that Elisha had blessed her to have) died, she even says, “Did I ask for a child?” (verse 28) Once she was gifted the child she felt it unfair to have him taken away so suddenly, so she indicated to Elisha to right the wrong. But she had been content before the child was even born. What an amazing blessing – to be happy with one’s portion. That is what Ben Zoma refers to as being wealthy in Pirkei Avot chapter 4!

Rabbi Meir Simcha of Dvinsk noted that this passage (Devarim 27:9-10) was spoken by Moshe along with the Kohanim and Leviim. He argues, based on a Midrash Tanchuma, that God forged 3 covenants with the Bnei Yisrael: upon leaving Egypt, in Chorev, and this one. The one from Chorev was cancelled with Israel on account of their involvement with the Golden Calf, which indicates that it was not cancelled with those who were not involved with the Golden Calf, namely the Tribe of Levi. Therefore they are the ones who can present it to everyone else, because they were never cancelled from being attached to this covenant.

This is a simple reminder that those who are the holiest of Jews maintain the connection with God, perhaps we might call it a lifeline, for the rest of us. They, our greatest leaders, keep us united as Jews and with God even when other indications suggest we are losing a sense of oneness that has always defined our people.

Netziv writes that “becoming a nation” is usually understood to mean creating an army who support the king, while the phrase also needs to be understood in the context of how it is presented. In our verse, it refers to being in “God’s army to represent His kingship to the world.” He goes on to say that this instruction is given specifically to Israel, because “only the great ones of Israel (gedolei Yisrael) and the Torah scholars can truly enlighten all people…”

“Listening to Hashem” (verse 10) means to listen and be precise in understanding the written Torah, which has in it hints to all matters of wisdom in the world, to the point that its knowledge could be translated and transmitted to all nations.”

We are on the precipice that leads up to Rosh Hashana. In exactly two weeks, Shabbos and Rosh Hashana will coincide and we will be embracing a new year like no other in recent memory. How many of us have had a Rosh Hashana where we were uncomfortable going to shul? There are no arguments or data points that will likely help change what is our anticipated reality for this year’s High Holidays – but hopefully we will see better times very soon!

The Slonimer Rebbe notes that looking at This Day of which Moshe speaks as Rosh Hashana reminds us that what our lives are lived for is our relationship with God. When we cry out to God on Rosh Hashana asking Him to remove any bad decree, we are accepting ourselves as His people. We are not to see ourselves as asking for life, for food, for health, for our children, for parnassah as means for our own happiness.

We are to look at all of these blessings as means to help fulfill our task as Jews. When we hear phrases of שמע ישראל and ושמעת בקול ה' א-לקיך, what do they remind us of, if not our most fundamental instructions of what our relationship with God is supposed to be all about?

Rosh Hashana is a day in which we crown God king, and it is also a day in which we renew any covenant we have with the Almighty.

We know very little about the Shunamite woman. But we know at the very least she was a woman of faith who trusted in God, wanted to do right for the man she saw as representing God, and was willing to literally put her money where her heart was in designating a space/loft for Elisha to rest from his travels.

Her indication, to Elisha’s Rosh Hashana request to her offering to put in a good word witht the King was, “I need nothing. I am content to be part of my people.”

How do we view Rosh Hashana? Is it a time of renewed commitment? Strengthened commitment? Taking our covenant with God more seriously? Do we seek out the wisdom of our great leaders and scholars?

It is never too late to take more upon ourselves. We would do well to look beyond simply seeing Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur as days we need to get through. They are “This Day.” They are “EveryDay.” They are days that serve as models for us for all year round of how to truly return to the Almighty, especially after we’ve veered and found a need to get back on track.

This Day is before us. Are we ready?