by Rabbi Avi Billet
The narratives of the forefathers depict Yitzchak as having a relatively unexciting life, while Avraham and Yaakov have many adventures. The Vilna Gaon noted that when Rivkah told Yaakov at the time she was instructing him to disguise himself to take the Brachos purportedly designated for Eisav, when she said עלי קללתך בני (Your curse is on me, my son), what she was hinting to was that the acronym עלי stands for all those who would be a source of suffering in Yaakov’s life, namely Eisav (ע), Lavan (ל), and Yosef (י). Eisav and Lavan will do what they do, while the suffering from Yosef will come on account of not knowing what has happened to him, when he is sold down to Egypt.
While the parsha begins in the aftermath of Yaakov’s encounters with Lavan, it goes right into his encounters with Eisav’s clan. (The troubles with Yosef will begin in the next parsha, Vayeshev.) Before he meets Eisav directly, he has a struggle with a man in the nighttime. The man is often identified as an angel, though which angel is a debate, but most are of the view that it is Eisav’s guardian angel.
